“Show me a happy person, and I will show you a person admired
by many people”
How many times have you spent time
with a depressed person? How
much do you like visiting the prisons, hospital compared to an eatery,
amusement park or wedding occasion?
How
many days do you spend visiting a family who lost a member or talking to
someone who always complain about one problem or the other?
By now you should have realized that
people want to be associated with happy people not depressed or sad people…It’s
simply human nature!
The whole essence of living is to be
happy. The whole of life’s challenges and activities is to crave happiness.
Happiness is a feeling that has been embedded in us since cradle. Nobody taught
you how to smile, laugh or play; you naturally discovered these activities of
life. While growing up; you feel that unexplainable emotion when you get your
result and you did well; you feel happy and proud of yourself. You get excited
when your parents show you off or compare you positively with another person.
You visit your friends and loved ones
because you want to chat, see them or discuss issues with them to make you
happy, you started your business not because you want to have somewhere to go
to every day, but rather because you probably want to have a sense of
fulfillment or money to earn the good things of life. People get married
because they want to have someone who cherishes them, because they want to be
happy…so is you and your spouse!
Happiness is an emotion that
encompasses all walks of life. It is an unexplainable feeling that makes you
feel that you are lighter, better, more fulfilled than others. It puts you in
“Cloud Nine”. Happiness is the soul of life, it is a constantly seeker of man.
It has been discovered to give a person untold leverage in life.
HERE ARE THREE BENEFITS OF
HAVING A TERRIFIC MARRIAGE BY USING THE WEAPON OF HAPPINESS:
1.
It Paves Way For You: Being noted for an
exciting, enthusiastic person make people see you like a wonderful, wise,
fulfilled person. You are perceived with a good attitude. It makes you look
nice and people trust that you could help them with their problems. They
perceive you as someone who is capable of handling issues. When going for a
contract or meeting a prospective client with a cheerful happy attitude makes
them feel that you are sure of yourself, your product or your idea. You create
the impression that you will be good to the clients, staff and you will be fun
to do business with.
In your
marriage; meeting a determined annoyed spouse with a smile and happy attitude
will make your spouse see the issue as not being too serious. It leads to your
spouse having second thoughts about his or her reaction.
Happiness
paves way for a lot of things; things that could have been difficult comes to
you easily.
2.
It gives you a fulfilled
day: sometimes you might wonder
why a 24hour day is unnecessarily long and boring and other times it seems so
short that you couldn’t get enough of it. The fact is “it’s the same length,
the same time”. The truth is being depressed or sad make the day seem so boring
and slow and being happy makes you feel on top of the world. You find
everything you do exciting and fun that you hate to see the day end. Request
that you might normally find hard or timid to ask seem like “Well! What do I
have to lose”. Words that could normally annoy you seem like a joke to you.
Issues that might seem complicated seem like you’ve just got the right solution
to it. Being happy simply make you a fulfilled person and most importantly…
3.Happiness
makes you see opportunities: opportunities they say is “Luck meeting preparation”. And what better way can you be prepared
than to be happy! Being
happy help you harness all your inner power and senses to situations happening
around you. It makes you see issues in great detail without using emotions but
logic as basis for judgment. This gives you the opportunity to glimpse issues
that normally could have slipped away from you as opportunities that they truly
are.
Happiness
is a great enhancer of opportunities and that is why most fulfilled people are
happy successful people.
Go meet your success!
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